What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch filled with attention and existence, without a basic kind and fixed result. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Of course, always with respect for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of heart and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, ecstatic state of being. The result is frequently a terrific physical, mental well-being. Generally, the receiver is extremely unwinded, wonderfully flowing and winding up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is really enjoy that touches. The hands of the provider are connected with his/her heart. The touch is loving, constantly focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active as well as feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Loaded with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence. Both the provider and the receiver are totally present. Do not believe about the other day or tomorrow. Don't take a look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or getting the massage. A very conscious touch from the heart. Get likewise very purposely, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are really out of the concern. Everything occurs in the minute, completely awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or falling asleep is likewise not planned (still, when that's exactly what you require, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't about an established result
A tantric massage will always be different. You never ever understand how it will end up. It is not the strategy or the preferred sequence of rubbing that is necessary, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the minute? Exactly what benefits her/him? Love knows what to do, enjoy constantly has a suitable response. Therefore the massage will be precisely that what is needed. Adequate is that the giver exists and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own strategy, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason often take an extremely surprising course. Whatever fits into a larger whole. A tantric massage does not always have to be "great", ending in bliss. A "failed" massage can be the first step in a fantastic advancement.
Ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with respect to limitations
We knew it for a long period of time, obviously, however given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually shown up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Naturally, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both provider and receiver constantly need to be guaranteed. Loving attunement constantly comes.
Set clear boundaries in advance
Every individual (except when you are informed) has his limitations. This is human and is also necessary (check out the article on guarding boundaries. So believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make certain there is a proper intake, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear borders ahead of time: about mental borders, and also take care for clarity about physical borders. It is a misconception that a tantric massage need to constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is also entirely ok (though hard to deal with oil then). It is also a misconception that a tantric massage should be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages just on the head. In addition, in fact each cell is sensuous, however you will be surprised.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow easily
Triggering and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erotic zones can likewise be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life intended at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally leading to a terrific physical, mental well-being
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is normally good, often scrumptious. We, for that reason, welcome you to completely enjoy getting ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Naturally, all massages have particular practices and techniques in common. There is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (aimed at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (aimed at healing).
Well because you are actually extremely energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but treatment is an occupation apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth description, see the post on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand out:
Tantra massage pointers-- before you start
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply great conditions (physically, but likewise psychologically).
* Explain arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is demand free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Don't just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (enjoyment noises?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) minutes.
Demand totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly Lodon Tantric interested in what they themselves discover pleasant, enjoyable, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "requirements", keep away from your very own concerns and above all ... do not aim to force anything. Nothing has to be done, nothing is needed! Again, don't aim to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Possibly you are disappointed when someone goes to sleep. You might not be waiting on an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no objective. No intended result. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Do not work to an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy circulation.
* Regard boundaries, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily very open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, understand that it can end up differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the whole body. Being excited is regular and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are really essential! A lot can come up.
* Be alert to restored freezing moments. Prevent limits from being crossed once again.
* Action by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes perfect. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and supply combination moments (simply doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest do not hurry to the weather ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy construct and flood your whole body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (however you will not fall asleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (sometimes completely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential recovery effect. Even though tantra massage is not the same as recovery, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you discover what it is like to love yourself.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a great deal of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love transformation, you might end up being not only happy but even joyous. An overjoyed state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the better you will feel.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The whole body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard form, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (shared) limits.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Usually resulting in a wonderful physical, psychological well-being (of both).